Myths Dispelled: The Autism Spectrum Disorder

Myth #1:

Individuals on the autism spectrum cannot have friends

On the contrary, some autistic people are extraverted and desire to have friends. Over time, they may have learned to compensate/mask their social anxiety and social challenges. They often become hyperaware of themselves over time and may either withdraw from social interactions or become more focused on others’ needs, at times at the expense of meeting their own. Some autistic individuals can make friends easily, but struggle in maintaining the relationships. This is especially true when there is a comorbid condition of ADHD, that comes with hyperactivity/impulsivity, which may look like seeking out constant stimulation.

Myth#2:

Making good eye contact means you are not autistic

While some autistic people might avoid eye contact, others have difficulties regulating the proper amount/intensity of eye contact. More often, they identify that eye contact feels uncomfortable but they have learned to do it and do so consciously to fit in.

Myth#3:

Someone who is kind, empathic, and tuned into others’ emotions can’t be autistic

Many autistic individuals are incredibly kind and empathic, often highly sensitive to others’ emotions. However, they may struggle with appropriate responses to their own emotional overwhelm or those around them.

Myth#4:

An autistic person cannot be successful in one’s career and/or school

Many autistic individuals are very successful in school or jobs. They have great work ethic. However, they may experience significant emotional difficulties as a result of stress related to work and/or school performance. They may have significant emotional meltdowns or anxiety attacks when faced with social challenges, unexpected changes, and/or lack of clear expectations at work.

Final word, while there are some common patterns, every autistic person is different.